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Coping with Death

Supporting Young People Grieving a Death

Although death is a natural part of life, experiencing the loss of a loved one can be especially difficult— particularly for young people. 

How does death impact young people?

The death of a loved one is one of the most profound and permanent losses a young person can experience. It often comes without closure and can be especially difficult to understand—particularly for younger children still grappling with the concept of permanence. The loss can disrupt daily routines, relationships, and their overall sense of normalcy. Grieving the loss of a caregiver, family member, or friend is often compounded by the fact that those around them are also coping with the same loss, which can make finding support even more challenging at times. 

How Does Rainbows Provide Support?

For over 42 years, Rainbows for All Children has supported hundreds of thousands of youth through grief, loss, and uncertainty. We continue to serve all young people—regardless of age, race, gender, or financial circumstances. If you or a young person you know is having a hard time with loss or change, [click here] to find Rainbows programming near you. Our programs are always free for participants, anywhere in the world where groups meet. 

By joining the Rainbows community— whether as a participant, caregiver, or trained facilitator— you’ll gain access to an engaging, evidence-based curriculum, and a group of peers who understand. Sign up today, and become part of a compassionate, supportive network committed to helping young people process their experiences, grow, and thrive through life’s most challenging moments. 

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Supporting Youth Through Familial Death

Supporting Youth Through Community Death

Parenting and Caregiving Through Death

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Death

Of all the children in America, around 15% will experience the death of a family member or sibling. Even though death is ultimately a fact of life, it can be hard for anyone to experience this kind of loss, let alone a child.

Separation/Divorce

There are about 1.25 million divorces per year in the United States. Of all U.S. children, 50% will witness the breakup of their parents’ marriage, and almost 50% of those children will also see the breakup of a parent’s second marriage.

Incarceration

One in 28 children will have a parent become incarcerated before their 18th birthday. Approximately half of children with incarcerated parents are younger than 10 years old.

Deportation

When a parent, caregiver or sibling is deported, or even when there is the threat of deportation, the whole family suffers.

Military Deployment

Parental deployment is a form of loss that 3% of American children experience. This can be a very difficult adjustment for children, who may not be able to see or speak to that parent regularly, and who also may experience a great deal of stress when worried about their parent or guardian’s safety.

Community Crisis

Community crises, such as natural disasters, pandemics or political unrest, cause confusing emotions for children. Rainbows’ programs can help children navigate difficult times and provide a sense of stability.

Significant Illness

A child coping with the significant illness of a parent, caregiver or sibling can face many challenges.

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Rainbows’ programs help children grieving the loss
of a parent or guardian due to death, divorce/separation,
deployment, deportation, incarceration or trauma.